Nowhere

In the run for fame, we do reach places which virtually existed in our mind but in reality, it's nowhere. By the time we are there, we have left behind everything and reality punches straight in your face & all of a sudden every single suggestion you have ever got starts shouting in your head that you have mistaken, but unfortunately it's all past.

So, what can be done, or is it the end?

Nowhere was the place where it all started. It can never be the end until you are standing straight, fighting the odds with all your energy and putting little steps in the right direction. I hope this life would have been simpler to live but I also think won't that be boring. I can't run every damn time but I can't stop too.

Nowhere is a state of mind which existed when you are not doing anything, If you have some goal, plan for it, work hard and achieve it.

Is it that simple?

Yes very simple, wake up at 5 a.m., meditate, exercise and give your best shot, not just tomorrow but every day thereafter.

P.S.- I am currently in nowhere and looking forward to the last para.

   

Restricting Roads

Whenever I enter a new territory, it opens hundreds of roads, of which some are with boards, some looks good, some are simply not the one. Truth is all of them take you to a new place, may be popular, may be dangerous or just a dead end. Some hit jackpot in the first go, some in second, some are still hunting and enjoying the journey not even thinking about the end, for which it all started but living every bit and learning new with every inch.

Which one is correct?

They always teach us to go the way they feel comfortable with or which looks lucrative to them but will it give you an end. Ask your heart, there is no end to ups and downs, whether you reach the end in first or never. Learning is of utmost importance which you can get even from the person selling stuffs on his cycle, one must have enough space to consume it. Looking out for something always leave us with expectations and sense of not having it, better to enjoy what we have and keep pours open. Definitely playing with the basics is not a start, but burning everything for those ups and downs in the final stage is not what we started for!

No need to restrict, sometimes letting them find its direction is the best way to live.  

Expectations

I love to be myself and do what I like, eat what I like, talk to whom and whatever I like but at times I am saddened of the fact that I expect. I killed this expectation thing in the past, but this is rigid, as time passes it comes back in one or another form. What I like, I feel it should be likeable, what I eat, I want it to be mouth-watering, whom I talk, I expect a similar response, and that is how I kill the opportunity to become a calm and composed individual. You shall speak to someone who does not behave in a mean way, how simple is that, right? It is actually effortless, and I am currently doing it. Best way to get over expectations is to sit back, relax and go back into your memory where it all started, you will always find the culprit is not someone else but you. 

Why I need anyone, all because it is always told that human is a social animal?

True, humans are the social animal, but can you get over this dilemma and lead the life with peace alongside being a human? 

Yes, by keeping things aside and yourself above all. By giving yourself an image where we might put someone who we aspire to become. Keep yourself first and everyone or everything next, talk to yourself, love yourself, give it some peacetime, you will see things falling in place like it had always happened but seldom observed. 

P.S.- When I am disturbed I talk to myself, I write, maybe not so meaningful to many at least I am giving myself peacetime.

People

Reading stuff, listening to professionals and after having lots of discussions with yourself and people surrounding you, if you make any point out of it, you feel good. Reading more about people, about the factors making them behave the way they do, learning communities, you think you know them. Unfortunately, you are nowhere close to reality, the situation when they behave differently to you, instead of eating those theories to think in depth, you start behaving like one. That’s where humanity lies ultimately, reading, learning and applying on others is one thing but thinking around and staying calm in such situations is different. Your behaviour changes like how they are reacting not otherwise, being a wisest of all and calmly handle it. Later you will sit back and realise the scenario with those theories, by the time you have lost an opportunity to act wisely. I tell you people are interesting, think of them as subjects, not as an enemy or someone willing to hurt you. Behaving the same way it is destined is not your piece of cake, you are learning to change the ‘destiny’ not to be a part of the same.